Deception is an interesting topic surrounding transmitting a false or misleading message. In my opinion, both lies of commission and omission are deceitful and wrong. I would like to say that “white lies” are moral, but I think we—as a society—have just conditioned ourselves to accept this logic. If people were honest –purely honest—then white lies wouldn’t be an issue. People who ask “Do these jeans make me looks fat?” shouldn’t ask unless they want a sincere answer.
I know from personal experience that I truly appreciate when others validate my feelings when I pose a concern about my appearance or performance. Also from personal experience, I know not to ask for someone’s opinion when I’m not prepared for the truth. Although this truth has proven painful at times, it has taught me to not seek approval or security from others, but rather, from the Lord.
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